“I never call Christians or others ‘anti’s,’ ‘digressives, ‘ mossbacks,’ ‘tackies,’ or ‘trash.’ I concede to all, and accord to all, the same sincerity and courtesy I claim for myself, as the Golden Rule demands…” T.B. Larimore
As I’ve taken another look at Restoration History the last few years, I’ve become a fan of T. B Larimore. I’d love to be known as a man who refuses to take sides and who refuses to label others. It wasn’t until recently that I realized that the church where I grew up in San Angelo, Texas, was basically started through a one-month gospel meeting by T. B. Larimore. I guess some of his views were imparted to me from very young. One of those views is a deep-set distrust of labels.
Conservative. Liberal. Change agent. Anti. Progressive. Digressive… who wears what label depends on who is speaking. It’s rare that someone applies a label to himself. I’ve been called sectarian. I’ve been called liberal. I’ve been called a legalist. I’ve even been called evil (I’m sure that e-mail was sent in Christian love!). And all for expressing basically the same ideas. It just depends on where the other person is standing. In the big scheme of things, it really doesn’t matter what others say:“But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court. In fact, I do not even judge myself. I am not aware of anything against myself, but I am not thereby acquitted. It is the Lord who judges me.” (1 Cor 4:3-4) Still, I hate to see people resort to labels. There are several reasons why:
- When we resort to labels, we’ve stopped viewing the other person as an individual. We judge them in terms of other people, not according to what they actually think and believe.
- When we resort to labels, we stop listening. “Everything you’ve got to say, I’ve heard before from others just like you.”
- When we resort to labels, we tend to fall back on preset ways of reacting. “Post-modernists think this way, and here’s what I always say to them.” If I were to accept anything that a “post-modernist” says, I’d be accepting everyone else to whom I’ve given that label.
So here’s one suggestion for preserving the integrity of our Lord’s church: stop the labeling!
If you want to heal wounds in the Lord’s Church today,
Gather all of your labels and put them away.
If you have to use labels, I suggest these and few others:
Christians, fellow saints, disciples and brothers.
Just wanted to let you know that I’m still here & still reading … I just know you don’t read this blog’s comments very often, and I can’t comment on the other one!! Is there anything I can do to change that?
This was a great post, with a reminder I need. Thanks!!
Lisa,
I’m trying to do better about reading this one. So keep commenting. I appreciate the encouragement.
Grace and peace,
Tim
Oh, and I don’t know how to fix the technical difficulties at the other site. My mac.com account is nice, but it has it’s limitations.
—Tim
Tim:
Today at JSCC we heard from someone with whom you are no doubt quite familiar:
Dr. Douglas Foster. He spoke on the topic “A Place to Stand”. HE had 30-35 minutes of sermon time and then 45-55 minutes of combined adult class time. As you would expect, he did a fantastic job of explaining our roots in such a way that someone such as I, a 3rd generation member of the church of Christ could see both the unity and tension between Stone and Campbell and why we, ultimately, became known as “Cambellites”.
One of the most outstanding and memorable remarks was his quote of T.B. Larimore in which he said he would not withdraw fellowship from those who disagreed with him even if they withdrew fellowship from him! I leaned over to Laura Smith and said, “That was the first preacher of this church. She replied through tears that much of his spirit is still threaded through the fiber of our church.
Very interesting to see your blog when I goolged “T.B. Larimore San Angelo Texas”. His influence will even affect the congregations with which you work throughtout the life of your ministry!
Thanks Michael
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