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Proud of my kids

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PHOTO BY JOY LEWIS, Abilene Reporter-News

All right, let me brag on my kids a bit. They’re involved in quite a few artistic things, but rarely do they get to do productions together. This weekend they are.

Andrea has one of the lead roles in Cooper High School’s production of “How To Succeed In Business Without Really Trying.” She’s worked really hard, as has all of the cast, and she’s doing a fantastic job.

When Daniel heard that they were going to use a live pit orchestra, he immediately wanted in. He checked around a bit and discovered that they were indeed using musicians from outside the school system. (since he’s in college now) He volunteered and is one of the two French horn players in the pit.

(Another neat thing… our niece Julia Taylor is also in the orchestra, playing violin)

“But where are the links?” you say. Here you go:

“Coffee Break” video from Facebook (performed at the Mall of Abilene)

“How To Succeed” sneak peek on KTAB

Newspaper article about the show

Event page on Facebook

 

Jasmine’s Corner

They say that dogs take on the traits of their owners over time. Certainly seems to be that way in this household. Our dogs have always been, let’s say, out of the ordinary. We have Hershey, who climbs trees. We have Princess, who lifts her leg to pee as if she were a male dog.

And there was Jasmine, our lab mix that passed away last week. Jazz liked to sleep on her back. To do so, she would contort into interesting poses that we merely called “the dog wreck.”

Jasmine loved to chew up charcoal. She didn’t really seem to eat it, but she always wanted a treat whenever I fired up the grill.

Jasmine using the wood as a pillow

Jasmine using the wood as a pillow

She also liked to carry around a big chunk of wood. Sometimes she would sleep on it, like a pillow.

Jazz never met a person that she didn’t assume was a friend. She would have been a terrible guard dog. Once I took her to the animal shelter to get vaccinated. It so happened that there were no other dogs there at the time. As we made our way from station to station, each person would pet her. By the time we got to the last station, Jasmine immediately flopped on her back, ready to have her belly rubbed.

Of our three dogs, Jasmine was the only one that liked to play with us. Princess ignores a ball when you throw it, and Hershey cowers in fear. (Hershey cowers in fear at a lot of things) Jasmine really liked Princess and couldn’t stand Hershey. Hershey loved to lick Jasmine in the face, I think just to make Jasmine bark and complain. When Princess and Hershey would fight playfully, Jasmine would egg them on noisily. She would try to get Princess to play with her as well, without Hershey.

Jasmine's Corner, with the wood and bone at her grave

Jasmine’s Corner, with the wood and bone at her grave

We fixed up a spot in the corner of the yard that Jasmine liked to lie in. We placed her chunk of wood at the head of her grave, along with a big bone. (Oh, yeah… the others don’t chew on bones. They will pick them meat off of them, but have no interest in the bone itself) When things cool off a bit, we’ll plant some plants in Jasmine’s Corner.


“The righteous care for the needs of their animals” (Proverbs 12:10)


We’ll miss you Jasmine.

Jasmine's Corner

Jasmine’s Corner

I am thankful

Cass Archer

Last Monday evening, I spoke with my mom and found out that my dad’s already poor health was declining quickly. I threw some clothes in the car and headed over to their house. My dad left this world the morning of Wednesday, May 25.

I want to share a couple of things. First, I’ll share something I wrote to be read at his funeral, then I’ll include the obituary that my sister wrote for the newspaper.

The Oak Tree

There’s a red oak tree in my parents’ backyard. It’s grown tall and strong since Daddy planted it, much taller than what was expected. During the last few weeks of his life, when Daddy would get confused as to where he was, he could see that tree out the window and it would help him know he was still at home.

Though Daddy ended up working most of his days in a classroom, he was a man of the soil. He loved growing things. When he and Mother began to travel, it was hard for him to keep his garden up. Later years robbed him of his strength for working outside. But that tree continued to grow, far beyond what anyone had anticipated.

My father was a man who knew how to cultivate and grow. He has left behind a legacy as strong and growing as that oak tree. He led tens of thousands of young minds in understanding the intricacies of mathematics. He helped to shepherd this congregation for many years, both during the time when he was an elder, and even when he wasn’t. And, not least of all, he left behind the strong legacy of children and grandchildren who share his deep Christian faith.

Many will remember his humor. As children, we rolled our eyes when Daddy would repeat the same jokes over and over. When someone said, “Go ahead,” Daddy was sure to respond, “Don’t call me goat head.” The person hearing it for the first time would laugh. We would groan. And now I find myself torturing my children with many of the same jokes that Daddy always made.

I’ve been told that I walk like my dad. Others have said that I talk like my dad. I’ve been told that I look like him. I take each of those statements as a great compliment. My father wasn’t perfect, which doesn’t surprise anyone. But he was a man who knew how to cultivate and grow. There’s an oak tree that stands as a testimony to that. And there’s a family seated here that bears the same witness.

We’ll miss you, Daddy. But so much of you will continue on. In us.

*****

Cass Louis Archer, faithful Christian, devoted husband and father, and dedicated college math professor, died Wednesday, May 25, at his home in San Angelo. He was 86.

Cass was born June 1, 1924, in Spearman, Texas, to Charles O. and Jessie (Karr) Archer. He had five brothers and two sisters. He married Irma Ruth Fulbright July 25, 1953, in McLean, Texas.

He served in the U.S. Army Air Corps from 1943-46. After his service he studied at the University of Texas, earning bachelor’s, master’s, and doctorate degrees in mathematics. He taught mathematics for 32 years, including serving as the head of the math department at Angelo State University from 1959-84. He also taught math in the Seminole public schools.

A long-time member of the Church of Christ, he served as a deacon and as an elder at Johnson Street Church of Christ. He was a member of Phi Delta Kappa, a professional association of educators, and a member of the Rotary Club for many years.

He was known for his dry wit and keen sense of humor. He loved traveling and gardening.

He is survived by his wife, Irma, of the home; a brother, Coleman Archer of North Richland Hills; children, Laura Wells and her husband, Cris, of Hurst; Deborah Pratt and her husband, Andrew, of Lawrenceville, N.J.; and Tim Archer and his wife, Carolina, of Abilene; seven grandchildren, Aaron Wells and his wife, Cecilia, Michael Wells, Philip Wells, Ben Pratt, Lauren Pratt, Daniel Archer, and Andrea Archer.

Visitation will be Friday, May 27, at Johnson’s Funeral Home with the family present from 5 to 7 p.m.

Services will be Saturday, May 28, at Johnson Street Church of Christ, with Tommy King, minister of the church, officiating. Burial will follow at Lawnhaven Memorial Gardens in San Angelo. Johnson’s Funeral Home is directing.

The family wishes to express its gratitude to the staff of Shannon Home Health Services and Hospice of San Angelo for the loving care given to our husband and father.

Memorial donations may be made to Herald of Truth Ministries in Abilene, Texas, or to Hospice of San Angelo.

Ministers Support Network Retreat

Carolina and I got to go the Summers Mill Retreat Center for a weekend retreat with the Ministers Support Network. It’s hard to describe the time we shared this past Thursday through Sunday. Resource people Eddie and Annette Sharp, David and Jeanne Wray, Charles and Judy Siburt, and Dean and Jeanine Bryce went to great lengths to listen, counsel, encourage and inspire the 7 couples that attended the retreat.

It was amazingly therapeutic for us, allowing us to discuss and deal with scars that date back to our time in Argentina.

There is an anonymous benefactor who makes all of this possible. He spends thousands every year to sponsor three of these retreats. Over two hundred ministers and ministers’ wives have been blessed by this ministry. Carolina and I are privileged to be able to count ourselves among the blessed.