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Involving the kids

On most Sundays, the kids at our church have their own class during the sermon time. Starting last month, on the second Sunday of each month, they stay with their families. I regularly preach for the bilingual group that meets in the chapel. We found out about the change the hard way last month. I sent the kids out, then they had to come back… and never settled down again.
This time I was ready. I was preaching the story of Naaman from 2 Kings 5. When I told the kids they weren’t going to class (along with appropriate groans and signs of dismay from them), I told them that I needed their help. Since adults don’t have enough imagination to picture things, I explained, I needed them to draw some pictures for us. At first I explained who Naaman was, how he got sick with leprosy, and how that would have ruined his life. I then asked them to draw a man who was sad because he was sick. I told them that I would want to see their drawings.
I then spoke to the adults a while, but the smaller ones finished their drawings quickly and were anxious to show them. I hadn’t calculated that well, and had to stop more than once to allow them to show their drawings.
When we came to the part of the text where Naaman is cured, I asked them to make a new drawing, one with a man who is happy because he wasn’t sick anymore. When I got close to the end of the sermon, I had them show their drawings. I encouraged the adults to be sure they could see at least one of the drawings. I closed the sermon by telling the adults that if the smiley face on that paper didn’t correspond to how they felt on the inside, they needed to look at getting right with God. [It was more complicated than that, but that was my way of trying to hit a broad range of needs]
What do you think of involving the kids in that way? Obviously, it’s easier in a group of 50 in a chapel than a group of 700 in a large auditorium. Does it sound like too much of a distraction for everyone else? Does it fall outside the bounds of “decently and in order”? Do you have suggestions of other ways to engage the younger ones in the sermon?

My Hispanic family

“There seems to be a mistake here,” the lady at the driver’s license office said.
“What’s wrong?” my wife asked.
“Your son marked that he’s Hispanic.”
“He is. He was born in Argentina. I’m Argentine.”
The lady looked up in surprise, then blurted out, “You don’t look Hispanic.”
For those of you that don’t speak the language, let me translate. The woman meant, “I’m sorry. I’m so ignorant that I think Hispanic means Mexican.” [Interestingly enough, it was 20 years ago when we had our major run-in with cultural ignorance, and it was also at the driver’s license office. But that’s another story.] If you don’t show features that reflect Aztecan or Mayan blood, then you just don’t look Hispanic to people like this lady.
From what I can tell, this problem is bigger in Texas than in other places. But you’d be surprised how many people tell my wife she doesn’t look Argentine. My usual response is, “Have you met a lot of people from Argentina?” Right now, I have the perfect ready examples. There are six Argentines playing in the NBA (at least in 2007-08). Two of them are blond, with German last names (Herrmann, Oberto). The others have Italian last names (Ginobili, Scola, Delfino, Nocioni). And none of them would fit this lady’s view of “Hispanic.” [If you include the other two Argentines that have played in the NBA, you do get Sanchez, which might sound a bit more Hispanic, but you also get Wolkowyski).
Hispanic is an ethnicity, not a race. Hispanics are as culturally diverse as are English speakers around the world. And my two beautiful kids are Hispanic, more so than many, since their great-grandmother was actually born in Spain. A lot of Hispanics can’t claim that.
Texas DPS, isn’t it time you hired some culturally-sensitive people? Nah… why mess with tradition?