There are some things that get in the way of our efforts to improve our form of taking the Lord’s Supper. One of the big things is our culture. It’s a given that we are going to be influenced by our culture; as Christians we are called to constantly resist that influence.
Here are some cultural things that I see getting in our way:
We’ve lost the concept of table fellowship. In biblical times, there was a real significance to sitting down at a table with someone. Think about how many times in modern society we sit down to eat in a room full of strangers. Restaurants are a fairly new invention and have certainly never been as prevalent as they are now. Some of us eat more meals in restaurants than we do in other settings.
Ancient societies placed great importance on the sharing of a meal. Eating at table with someone placed the two of you in a condition of mutual aid and protection, almost like being family. We see that reflected in Psalm 41:9 — “Even my close friend in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted his heel against me.” Great importance was placed on who you chose to eat with, which we can see in Jesus’ ministry (how many times was He criticized for eating with the wrong people) and in Peter’s mistake in Galatia (Galatians 2:12).
Even in our homes, we tend to eat our meals and move on, rather than lingering over the table as many cultures do. For many people around the world, the time after the meal is as important or more important than the time during the meal.
We are too time conscious. One anthropologist told of one tribe that called Americans “the people with gods on their wrists.” We make many decisions about what to do and what not to do in our services based on time considerations. Our way of taking the Lord’s Supper is designed more for efficiency than for reverence. Can you imagine if our family dinners had time limits? “Well, we were going to have dessert, but we seem to be short on time, so we’ll save that for next week.” “You know, we would put out butter for the rolls, but we just don’t have time for everyone to use it.”
We distrust spiritual things, preferring rationality. For a people who profess to speak where the Bible speaks, we certainly spend a lot of time calling the bread and the cup “symbols.” And we talk about Jesus being present in our assemblies, yet rarely speak of any real presence of the Lord with us at the table.
Those are a few things that come to mind for me. What other cultural barriers can you see?